We're accustomed to investing heavily in one or two relationships (careers, marriage, children, etc.) with the expectation of gaining complete satisfaction from the experiences connected to them. If we're not fulfilled, we can become dissatisfied and begin to feel stuck. I've found that a healthier (and more appropriate) approach to designing a fulfilling life requires taking a portfolio approach and looking beyond the one or two main relationships we anchor to. Instead, explore inside (yourself) and out, and allow yourself to add what works to your portfolio!