Leadership work can consume you in unexpected ways. While managing people and resources, guiding strategy and implementation, confronting disagreement, and diffusing conflict, leaders develop coping mechanisms and assert boundaries that help them navigate the tumultuous terrain. However, they may inadvertently neglect asserting internal boundaries to minimize the mental and emotional strains that come with this work. In this Forbes article, I share my most recent experience as a recovering drama addict and discuss ways I overcame it.
Start Anywhere: Advice For When You're Unsure Of Your Next Move
In my recently published Forbes article, I talk about how to get started (wherever you are) when you’re unclear about the next move to make. Trust me, I know firsthand what that can feel like and have had my share of unplanned meandering (read the article for those details). Nevertheless, when we remain open and willing to learn from our experiences, we always find ourselves on the right course. From the article:
"I’m a huge believer in the dignity of work, and think that we may have done ourselves a great disservice in overemphasizing the notion that only efforts that resonate with our deepest desires and highest values are worth pursuing."
HOW TO BUILD A COACHING CULTURE TO DRIVE HIGH PERFORMANCE
In this recent Forbes article, I share my view on how to nurture coaching cultures within organizations. One major way is by asking great questions to enhance performance:
“A coaching culture is the key to enhancing individual and team performance. When leaders and managers ask great questions and coach their staff to get very real and specific about goals, habits, communications styles, and approaches to challenges, they vest in them the responsibility for growth. A coaching mindset unlocks potential, builds confidence, and facilitates the co-creation of the future.”
The Art Personal Branding: How To Build Bridges While Self-Promoting
Personal branding is an art that requires you to promote yourself (or your business) while building real connections with your customers/audience - and at times can feel like straddling two opposing sides of an electric fence. Take a look at this Forbes article where 15 experts (myself included) weigh in with advice on how to balance these seemingly contradictory approaches and successfully build your personal brand. Here’s a hint: those who focus on giving are bound to receive…
13 Warning Signs Of A Life Crisis (And Ways To Course Correct)
It happens - that feeling of overwhelm that sometimes brings us to the brink of “out of control”. How do we know when we’re approaching our limit - and how do we back away from the edge? I share one clear sign in a recent Forbes article. What other signals may be warning you away from an impending break? Read more here.
14 Ways To Renew Enthusiasm For A Long-Standing Job
15 Ways For Business Leaders To Be Accountable For Bad Decisions
Leaders are responsible for making countless decisions each day that impact the welfare and success of organizations, staff, and the general public. For this reason, it’s important for them to be able to take accountability for their actions (or inactions) that may result in negative consequences. At the heart of leadership is the acknowledgment of our humanity...and the ability to accept mistakes as learning moments (preferably quickly) and self-correct. In this most recent article, I contributed what I believe to be 1 of 15 important ways that leaders can be accountable for bad decisions.
12 Ways For Professionals To Know If A Job Aligns With Their Values
Whether a job is right for you, goes beyond assessing the skills you bring to the table and compensation packages. We often overlook one of the most important factors in determining whether we can thrive at a company... IS THE COMPANY ALIGNED WITH OUR VALUES? Take a look at how I (along with other experts) suggest we answer this question.
How Business Leaders Thrive: 16 Surprising Habits To Practice Daily
Habits form the framework that shapes our lives. We tend not to think about them as they work in the background, guiding our steps, our actions, and affecting outcomes. Take a moment to think about and build the habits that will help you thrive! I (and other notable experts) have compiled a great list to choose from.
Feeling Isolated? 13 Ways To Combat Loneliness In Entrepreneurship
It can be lonely running your own operation or leading an organization.
"To validate the sacrifices you’re making—and perhaps to distract yourself from the pressure of working solo much of the time—you may up your load, trying to bring every big idea to life. Although many entrepreneurs lose themselves in their work in this way, no one can escape the fact that humans are social animals by nature, and being disconnected from others will eventually impact your health."
Here are a few ways to combat the isolation that many times start to creep in.
Necessary Obstacles: Challenges Help Write Your Story
I wrote this article for Forbes prior to the coronavirus pandemic, with no foresight of what was to come. It was recently released, and although the article wasn’t intended for the current environment, it may help us reframe how we’re experiencing our challenges today. Hopefully, you’ll find some helpful tools for learning whatever we can from obstacles – understanding that they are a part of every narrative. While so much is indeed out of our control, choosing how to respond most effectively in difficult times is a muscle we can all develop.
16 Coaches Share What They Wish They Knew Before Taking On Their First Client
16 Ways To Help A 'Bully' Executive Client Become More Self-Aware
Bullying in the workplace is a regrettably common phenomenon. In a 2017 national survey, 19% of respondents reported being bullied at work, and another 19% have witnessed it firsthand. While some perpetrators may purposely treat others unkindly, others may not even be aware that their words and actions are being viewed as "bullying."
14 Life Hacks Busy Professionals Use To Optimize Their Time
Culture Shock: What's Getting In The Way Of Your Company's Success And How To Fix It
Culture is everywhere. It’s one of the most foundational elements to building a strong team. More importantly, its alignment with strategy is what matters in your organization’s ultimate success. In this piece, I share my thoughts on how to take the temperature of your company culture, along with some simple advice on how to ensure it’s working for you.
Trying to Narrow Down Your Career Path? Try These 15 Tips
Choosing a career is a major decision. Even if you end up switching careers down the line, the first step you take into the working world will impact the entirety of your professional journey. But as someone with multiple interests, skills and passions, it can be difficult to narrow in on just one career that best represents your goals and dreams.
Has Your Company Brand Lost Its Luster? Try These 14 Tips
Seven Steps To Helping Clients Better Define Their Goals
As a coach, you must first understand your clients' intentions and desires in order to best serve them. If they’re unsure what they wish to achieve, you won’t have a clear goal to guide them toward. So before you start establishing good habits and routines, you need to help them discover what it is that they truly want or need.